visit or email [email protected] / call The FOCCUS Inventory is not a test – there are no right or wrong answers. It is a . Our priest actually allowed us to take the FOCCUS test at home and on our own time. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of. Our first step in preparing for a Catholic wedding was to take something called the FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication.
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The first one was how to use the Catholic caticism by a retired religion teacher. Groomy and I already know that about each other because we have lived together for so long. Questions about are you on the same page about kids, arguements, etc.
I answered Uncertain a lot which turns out not to be good. He never said anything, so one can foccud assume all was reasonably well…. Or focfus like that. August 18, at 9: Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.
Who is the Pre-Cana course organizer? The responses are “agree” “disagree” and “unsure. If not, can we facilitate having them so that any problems are solved now rather than becoming issues during the marriage. Told us to go over it together ourselves. FI almost told the priest that I’m a drug addict or something sooo not true, but kind of funny!
Groomy about some of them and it really did facilitate communication. Foccux your priest or a counselor will discuss how much in sync you were in various areas. A little while after you take the test, you meet with the deacon, priest, or a sponsoring couple and they go over the results. We have discussed the ways our families solved problems and how this may affect tesg problem solving.
We went over questions we disagreed on. February in Catholic Weddings.
Emphasizing these aspects of the relationship allows a great diversity of patterns and messages to emerge and tailors the inventory not only to the fkccus, but also to their specific cultural background s and setting. Create a free website or blog at WordPress. We have discussed the ways roccus families solved problems and how this may affect our problem solving.
This seems like it could be fun but also eye-opening. Have you had the tough conversations?
If the tesst is the course organizer, I would wait late after class one night and tell him about your concerns. So my “interpretation” was a total bust too. Source for all of the above.
A lot of it was about sharing space, learning argument styles, when the partner needs alone time, etc. It is an assessment to see where you are in terms of preparedness for marriage.
FOCCUS Facilitators are trained to encourage each partner’s private reflection, as well as the couple’s shared discussion regarding the items and topics on the inventory.
Tesy had things that were flagged for discussion. October Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of differences. October 22, at October We get our resuts tonight.
It asked questions like, “Do you have a problem with your partners gambling habits? Is this a real thing?
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They separated us and we spent probably 45 minutes filling it out. Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance.
TallBride 10 years ago Wedding: November No, do NOT be nervous! It was just a conversation starter for me and FI! You are commenting using your Facebook account. All in all, Tesh would say the FOCCUS test was a good experience, but perhaps better suited for couples who have never lived together before.
November No, do NOT be nervous! It should really not be called a “Test” because you cannot really fail it.